Taking it for granted…
I don’t think people are taking this special month of Ramadan seriously. Maybe because they don’t know the unbelievable benefits this month has to offer.
Here are some facts:
The Holy Prophet (S.A.) said:
O men and women! Draw near unto you the blessed month, overflowing with advantages, merciful, ready to put up your sins for omission and comission to Allah for obtaining His forgiveness. Its days, nights and hours, in the estimation of Allah, are more select, refined and important than the days, nights and hours of other months. It surpasses all months in merits and favors.
In this month you are the guests of Allah, enjoying His hospitality, you are from amoung His favorites, your breathing is “praise of Allah”, your sleep is His worship, your prayers recieve His approval, your invocations are sanctioned. So, sincerely, free from evil and sinful thoughts and actions, with clear conscience, pray and request that He may give you the heart and confidenceto observe fast and recite the Holy Quran and dua’as throughout this month.
He who does not receive mercy and forgivenessin the month is really an ill-fated unfortunate, condemned to everlasting unhappinessand deprivation.
Thirst and hunger you undergo, feel and live through, here and now, bring to your memory the severity and sharpness of the drought and starvation that will be the order of the day on the Day of Judgement.
Give alms to the poor and the destitute.
Treat your parents and elders with respect.
Be kind and loving to your children and juniors.
Take care of and look after your kith and kin.
Keep from giving tongue to that which should not (even) be whispered.
Shut your eyes to that which is indecent to have an eye for.
Turn a deaf ear to that which is too slanderous to be all ears.
Be compassionate, gentle and benign unto orphans so that after you, your children, if need be, recieve the same treatment from others.
Turn repentant to Allah and seek his nearness.
After every prayer recite dua’as to invoke His mercy and forgiveness because the most suitable time to get fulfilment of desires is when you have prayed a salaat, the Almighty gives answer to His servants who call Him in these moments.
O People! In the truth and fact your bodies and souls are held in pledge, strike a bargain to set them free by asking forgiveness of Allah. Your backs are burdened with a hard to endure load of sins, prostrate yourselves in adoration in Allah, a great deal, to make the drag less heavy, because the Lord of the worlds has given His word, in the name of His might and honour, not to take task those who pray and prostrate in this month, the flames of fire will not frighten them.
O People! Whoso provides a meal to a faithful, at the time of breaking fast, earns the recompense of setting an enslaved human being free.
O People! In this month, whoso makes better his or her morals will cross the, “Bridge of Siraat” with ease and finesse, where people, at every step, would stumble and fall, whoso gives leisure and respite to his or her employees will receive equivalent leniency on the Day of Reckoning, whoso takes care of and looks after the orphans and relatives will be treated mercifully ont he Day of Judgement, whoso prays optional salaats will get the immunity from Hellfire, and good in leaps and bounds, whoso recites even one verse of the Holy Quran, obtains the reward of a full recital of the whole Book in other months.
O People! In this month, beyond a shadow of doubt, the doors of everlasting bliss and happiness are thrown open, so beseech Allah not ever to shut them off to your face, and the traps of the eternal curse are unhinged, so make a request to Allah to remove themm from your path forever, the devils are held in chains, so pray to Allah not to set them free for leading you astray.
The month of Ramadan is very dear to Allah. It is the most august of all months, pure, generous and merciful.
Do not let its nights go to waste in slumber, its days in careless omission or loss of rememberance of Allah.
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1st Night Dua’a (Prayer):
[O Allah, the Lord of the month of Ramadan, the revealer of the Quran. This is the month of Ramadan, in which Thou revealed the Quran and revealed the “signs” that render clear the guidence and teaching to distinguish between good and evil. O Allah make us observes fast int he days and remain awake in its nights to pray. O Allah let it be peaceful for us, keep us in sound condition for it, let it take upon itself the supervision of our affairs to give us ease and hapiness and while taking decisions, in the “Night of Qadr” and rendering possible things and events decisively (decision which cannot be changes of bypassed) write my name on the list of those pilgrims of Thy “Sacred House” whose pilgramage recieve Thy appoval, whose wrongdoings are overlooked, and while making decisions and rendering possible things and events make possible for me long life, and enough lawful means of livelihood.]
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Iftar Dua’as (Prayers) #1:
**When breaking your fast, hold water in one hand and a date in the other, and recite the following prayer:
“ALLAHUMA LAKA S’UMTU WA A’LAA RIZQIKA AFT’ARTU WA A’LAYKA TAWAKKALTU”
[O my Allah, for thee, I fast, and with the food thou gives me, I break the fast, and rely on thee]
Iftar Dua’as (Prayers) #2:
**Ameer-ul Moo-mineen Ali ibn Abi Talib (A.S) used to recite the following dua’a before iftar:
“BISMILLAH ALLAAHUMMA LAKA S’UMNAA WA A’LAA RIZQIKA AFT’ARNAA FA-TAQABBAL MINNA INNIKA ANTAS SAMEE’UL A’LEEM”
[In the name of Allah, O Allah, we fast, and with the food thou gives us we break our fast, and obligation we fulfill and Thou art Hearer, Knower.]
Change for good.
For all of you out there, that are living your lives in sin. I know that you all want to change for the good. I was once there, and I took the opportunity of the month of Ramadan to change my life around. You can do it too…